without sounding cruel,and beleive me im not that sort of person, this is a typical situation that many find themselves in. sometimes the love of an animal overwhelms our better judgement.this type of situation causes so much stress on the owner/s it blinds there visions of whats best for the animal, and certainly the person/s. the costs of vets nowadays is so 'over the top' people have no choice but to put the animal to rest...its a decision that hurts and does terrible psychological feelings for the person. but whats the best thing for us to do? if there is no money coming in to support even yourself, why have an animal? obvious answer,but in some situations not the right answer....you are best not having any animals. we had an incident here in australia (victoria) where a guy virtually 'murdered' his eight cats because he was sick of the complaints by neighbours...so he drowned all eight, but more inhumanely, decided to clobber them to death to ensure they were dead. cruel? you betcha (he got off) but you have to ask how did it get to this stage where he snaps and takes such drastic actions. to many times situations like this occur...is it because people really are animal haters or are they driven to such drastic decisions because of costs and no help or support? the do gooders will victimise the poor buggers who love there animals but just cant afford to rectify any problems,so they destroy the animals or let them suffer unecassarily. so whilst i feel for people like cheryl, i still say there is no sense in making judgements that cruely place an animal in situations like this...do the humane thing and place in a better situation or have the animal removed from yourself or even worse, put to rest. dont let situations like this happen. we know whether we can support these great friends or not....would you do it to a child? sometimes the hardest decisions are for the better. i do wish you well cheryl, but i wish the animal a better situation and hopefully others see where im coming from. daz
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